“Maybe the largest tragedy of our time is that freedom is feasible, but we go our years trapped in the identical patterns.” – Tara Brach
You already know what you’re going to do. You’ve already determined in the event you’re going to depart your job. You’ve determined in the event you’re going to interrupt up together with your boyfriend or eat that complete piece of chocolate cake. All of us do. We simply don’t understand we already know.
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If most of us know what we’re going to do, why is it so laborious to chop by way of the crap and embrace the interior data we personal?
Private historical past offers us helpful biases about how issues “are” and what’s “potential” and “life like.” Our brains are sensible. They search for patterns in the environment to maintain us protected and to make use of much less vitality.
We create limits which are invisible to everybody however our unconscious bias. And in flip, we by no means give ourselves the possibility to see what’s potential past our personal prediction.
The very fact is: It’s loads simpler to say no within the face of uncertainty than it’s to say sure.
Our March theme, Say Sure, is about making a deliberate alternative that shakes issues up and grants a brand new perspective. Taking the street much less snug and being open to the fallout. After we type new associations with taking dangers it can change into simpler to choose in than choose out.
In March, our contributors shall be sharing their very own tales of once they mentioned sure—to a brand new DIY mission, to self-reinvention, to creating new pals. They’ll be writing concerning the classes they discovered from a month of claiming sure, and why saying sure to boundaries can enhance your psychological well being. I’ll be writing concerning the journaling prompts which have the facility to shift your perspective, amongst different subjects. We will’t wait to share what now we have in retailer within the weeks to return!
We wish pleasure. We wish ease. We need to take dangers with out concern and doubt holding us again. All of that is potential by saying “sure” to a brand new perception—one in all potential and chance vs. considering it’s “too late” or “too laborious” or “too on the market” for somebody such as you.
Saying sure requires apply. Saying sure requires endurance. Saying sure is just not about immediate gratification however the act of claiming sure to being within the second, to picking motion over inaction and company over powerlessness.
Saying sure requires apply. Saying sure requires endurance. Saying sure is just not about immediate gratification however the act of claiming sure to being within the second, to picking motion over inaction and company over powerlessness. Saying sure can typically imply embracing no. It’s about saying sure to new patterns, new pathways, new views, and no to ones that hold giving us the identical outcomes.
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